It’s ok to change the “rules” of your life. To start playing a different game, changing up the storyline, and taking control of your own life to do whatever it takes to bring you inner peace. This is called evolving, and learning to move with the flow of life instead of against it.
We can slow the process of evolving down and make ourselves miserable in this inescapable process by fighting against the changes, or we can learn what is essential to our survival-adapting. Adapting to a new way of being by learning to release what no longer serves our highest good, changing how we’ve always done (or been expected to) do things, and doing the unthinkable-living your one and only irreplaceable life in a way that feels good to you. Just perhaps too, you might even surprise yourself by discovering this was the key all along to you not just surviving your life but thriving too.